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Showing posts with label We never thought we could get HIV. We were wrong. Show all posts
Showing posts with label We never thought we could get HIV. We were wrong. Show all posts

Sunday, 10 March 2013

We never thought we could get HIV. We were wrong

At first, Rachel Dilly was simply flattered by the attention from the handsome stranger. It had been almost a year since she had separated from her partner of 20 years, with whom she had three children, and, like so many middle-aged and newly single women, she had started to explore the world of online dating. The man who had contacted her seemed interesting and articulate. ‘We just clicked, so I agreed to meet him for dinner,’ recalls Rachel, a charity worker from Harpenden, Hertfordshire. 'All went well at first and romance ensued. 

But after a few months, things ‘fizzled out’. However, for Rachel, the brief affair would have a grave legacy. She began to feel ill, losing her sense of taste and smell and suffering from swollen glands and mouth ulcers. ‘My doctor thought it sounded like malaria but I hadn’t been abroad. When I found an ulcer on my body, I was referred to a GUM [genitourinary medicine] clinic. 
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